A Tropical Christmas

Author:  Lynne Wymore Moo

 

The commercialization of Christmas has always bothered me.  As a Christian who holds the holiday sacred, it grates against me to see Santa Claus climbing out of chimneys at the grocery store alongside the discounted Halloween candy.  No doubt, Christmas left the spiritual realm years ago and now resides quite comfortably in a secular wonderland of over-spending, over-decorating and out-shining both the neighbors and the past.

 

I never thought I would miss it.

 

We had lived in Shanghai for only 3 months when the Christmas season rolled around.  And whereas in America the Christmas season begins in mid-October, in Shanghai that happened in the middle of December.  At the end of American Thanksgiving, I was quite comfortable without sparkling lights or faces of Santa Claus dotting every door and window.  But by the middle of Advent, I had to admit that I missed the spectacle.  With no Christmas parties filling our schedule, no cookies and pies building up in our kitchen and no wrapped presents piled underneath our tree, it just didn’t feel like Christmas to me.  I felt like a fake – like the fabled miserly family who celebrates Christmas in late January, to take advantage of the post-season sales.  I missed the lights framing every building and the music pumped into every store.  I missed the warmth that fir branches and rich reds and greens can provide to a cold day.  And mostly, I missed the family and friends that fill the Christmas season.

 

So, we skipped town.  We left an atheist country for an Hindu community in an Islamic nation.  We went to Bali, where I could count the Christmas trees we saw all week on one hand.  Where it felt so unlike Christmas that we didn’t even miss it.

 

We spent the first half of our trip in Ubud, a popular village in central Bali billed as a center for artists.  We found the streets lined with shops selling mediocre paintings and impressive but rather unnecessary wood carvings.  But hidden amongst these tourist traps were gems of boutiques selling unique clothing in beautiful fabrics, well-tailored to make women look beautiful.  With two young children in tow, I spent very little time seeking out sundresses.  But one store did manage to yank the girls and I right off the street.  Threads of Life is a non-profit dedicated to preserving Indonesia’s rich heritage of textile making as well as building the local economy through supporting women artisans by purchasing their products at a fair wage.  The textiles hanging on the walls were beautiful, and the stories behind each one inspired me.  The store keepers artfully placed their vibrant pieces on stark walls in an otherwise simple room. I fell in love with piece after piece, but felt that my budget could not afford their fair wages.  Then I saw it.  A shoulder wrap in a smooth shade of green, with a simple pattern of leaves crossing it.  It would have looked striking as a runner on my dark dining room table. I could have felt good about the purchase.  No doubt I could have asked about the origins of the piece, the weaver and the region where it was created.  But I stuck to my budget traveling guns and left it behind.  I wish I hadn’t.

 

Surrounded by fantastic scenery, we spent a day hiking and another day driving through terraced rice paddies, dramatic river gorges and fog crowned mountain peaks.  The girls loved every minute of it, as did my husband and I.  Feeling that a tropical vacation would be incomplete without a stint on the beach, we left Ubud for the coastal town of Sanur.

 

The white sand and warm water of Sanur made for the perfect day at the beach.  The town lines the ocean and has a well-kept brick path running the length of the beach.  Walking south took us through what must have been the public beach.  The sand and the water filled with young people with dark skin.  The food vendors sold cheap satays and plenty of foods I did not recognize.  The brightly colored boats lay in rows, as if presenting themselves for a photographer.  Walking into the evening, we watched as the sun dropped in the sky and lit the boats and the ocean swimmers with dusk’s golden light.

 

Returning north along the beach, we passed restaurants and shops catering to tourists.  Tables sat right on the beach, adorned with simple candles which swayed romantically as the wind picked up.  Menus offered Balinese curries and satays, and the smell of fresh seafood on the grill filled the air.  We stopped where only one other family ate.  These wise parents had brought along their shovels and pails, and sat drinking Bintang beer at a bar made of driftwood while their children played happily on the sand.  We followed their lead, and borrowed their toys once their food came.  The bar looked across the path, down the beach and directly onto the ocean, painted red and gold by the setting sun.  The scene was idyllic.  We moved to plastic tables and lawn chairs once our food arrived and dug in.  Every so often, my daughter grabbed my arm and together we looked over the arm of her chair at quite a large bug.  This rhinoceros beetle lay on his back, lazily moving his legs in an effort to turn himself.  He moved slowly and so caused no perceptible threat, but made dinner that much more interesting as he provided the entertainment.  As we finished our dessert, she and I watched the bug once more.  His struggles had become wilder and soon he managed to flip himself over.  Too bad, I thought for a moment.  The show is over. 

 

Apparently, when a rhinoceros beetle feels stress he begins to whine in a loud, vibrating manner.  The large, clunky bug flew straight up into the air, rammed into the fluorescent bulbs hanging from a wire and began careening wildly and making a mad buzzing sound.  My daughter screamed and clung to me as if her life depended upon it.  I pulled her off of her chair and onto my lap, where I hid my face in her hair under the pretense of offering comfort.  The beetle became more distressed, as the waitress moved quickly back to the kitchen for help.  According to my husband – my face remained well hidden the entire time – a young man coolly walked out from the kitchen, reached up and swatted the bug right out of the sky.  It dropped straight down, onto my daughter’s now empty chair.  Apparently rhinoceros beetles also cling insistently onto people’s clothes when nervous – what a sight that could have been!  The man grabbed the beetle by a leg, and walked calmly back to the kitchen saying No problem, no problem.  Even the gnats and mosquitoes terrified her for the rest of the evening.

 

On Christmas Day, we managed to find a hotel serving a wonderful Christmas dinner – complete with Balinese dancers, spring rolls and chicken satay.  Otherwise, spending our days in the warm ocean, we completely forgot the time of year.

 

Well, not completely.  We arrived home early the morning of January 1st to find that Santa had delivered gifts while we were away.  On this one day, our home filled with shreds of wrapping paper, warm muffins and sleepy children, it did feel like Christmas.

 

 

Essentials:

Flight: Garuda Airlines

www.Garuda-Indonesia.com

Pros:  Great stewardesses, armed with spare diapers, toys and baby food.

Cons:  Horrible organization; all flights were hours late and counter service at the airport was horrendous.

Price:  Adults: RMB 3990 + 1690 tax per person;  Child in seat: RMB 3080 + 1590;  Infant on lap: RMB 1530 + 1480 tax

 

Hotel in Ubud:  Garden View Cottages in Nyuh Kuning

Tel: 00 62 361 974 055

Pros:  Good location, away from the bustle of town but an easy walk to everything; fantastic facility with a lovely pool, tasty breakfast, large rooms and very child-friendly gardens.

Cons:  Two room cottages contained stairs, which we found un-child friendly

Price:  US$40 per night for a 2 room bungalow, including breakfast

 

Store in Ubud:  Threads of Life

10am – 6pm Monday – Saturday

www.ThreadsOfLife.com

 

Hotel in Sanur:  Sanur Mercure Resort          

www.AccorHotels.com/accorhotels/fichehotel/gb/mer/5474/fiche_hotel.shtml

Pros:  Fantastic facility with clean rooms, an affordable spa, 2 sparkling swimming pools and a beautiful beach.

Cons:  Service was rude at every turn, the free breakfast tasted watered down and made some of our family sick, and the hotel was a hike from any decent shopping.

Price:  US$110 per night for a deluxe king room large enough for 2 baby cots, including breakfast buffet

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